Dating advice from Cupid

When you start flirting, there are things you should do.

1. Don't ever go up to her girl randomly and say, "Hey, sweet thang." I swear to God, you'd be the stupidest person there. You'd feel stupid too after she laughs at you and walks away or if she gives you a look that says, "What the **** is wrong with your crazy ass?" and inches away from you. Don't ever.
   
2. If she's with her friends, slyly walk past her, while trying to get her attention, with your head down a bit ( not all the way down because you'll look like you're really shy and depressed. ), glance at her and crookedly grin. I see it all the time and it makes me want to melt. It's ***y and it works all the time.
3. If you don't get her attention, don't walk back and fourth because it'll look like you're trying to to stalk her really badly. Just somehow walk back near her and drop something, and pick it up. It'll possibly get her attention. If she looks at you after the picking up the dropped object, glance up at her, smirk at your success and coolly say, "Hey."
   
4. If that didn't work, pick a different girl and do the same thing.

Don't Complain

• I recently read that complaining is actually unhealthy. Honestly, no body really wants to sit around & listen to people's problems 24/7- especially guys- its worse when you are complaining to a guy about another guy. i mean sure, they may want to help you but if you complain about the same guy/issue every time you have to stop & think if it is all worth it.
  
  after i found out it was unhealthy i told one of my close guy friends that i was gonna stop complaining. so we ended up making a bet that i wouldn't last 2 weeks. & well; i didn't last 2 DAYS. but i have been trying not to complain so much & i actually feel better by not complaining about every little thing.
  
  i'm not saying to completely stop complaining- just complain less & when you do complain just let it out a little then let it go & try to forgive & forget. you cant just talk about it constantly to other people because that goes nowhere. you need to go to the source & tell them how you feel. talk it out & everything will work out.

Dos and Don'ts

• There's always a few things girls want or don't want, that they won't admit. Either, not to seem childish or rude or demanding, or is embarrassed to admit or fears hurting your feelings. Follow these few dos and don'ts for a little idea of what those things are.
  
  DO:
  
  - Be romantic. Every girl wishes for roses, or a Hollywood kissing scene. Makes these moments worth it. She'll never forget it and love you for it. Plan something special in a meaningful or beautiful place, admit your feelings, and kiss her.
  
  - Be protective, defensive. She feels safe and loved and cared for when you stand up for her. Be careful though. When it's jealousy and just too much of it, don't make her feel bad for having guy friends or hanging out. Talk to her about it, but realize she needs space.
  
  - Trust her. If you love her, and she loves you, you have no reason not too. It's hard sometimes, if she's got alot of guy friends and such, but trusting her will make her feel dependent and trusted.
  
  - Read her body language. If she wants you to hold her hand, she'll fiddle with her fingers, if she wants to kiss you, she'll lick her lip, if she gets closer, give her a hug. If it's obvious she does not want you to do something, resist doing it.
  
  - Tell her you love her. Remind her of your feelings. Make it worth it though and don't over use it. Make sure it's special and that you really mean it.
  
  - Share the control. Most girls like having their guys plan a date, or make the first move. But it's always fun to pick too. Suggest that she picks what to do, or let her lean in to kiss you.
  
  - Spoil her. Even if she told you not to get her a present for Christmas, or her birthday, bring her a little something meaningful and cute. Suggestion? A perfume or fragrance you picked yourself, or a necklace or piece or jewelry. Personalized things mean even more. It doesn't have to be much, but you have to mean it.
  
  DON'T:
  
  - Do not push onto her whatever it is you want ; a kiss, a make-out session, whatever. Let her decide to participate and do not force her into anything.
  
  - Do not hesitate to call or email. Plenty of relationships die from just not enough communication. Plus, it's usually impressive when a boy makes the move to call or talk.
  
  - Do not bring your buds without asking her. Most of the time, girls won't mind having your friends around. She'll feels included in the gang and accepted into your life. Although, if you invite friends without asking her first, she might feel offended and that you just don't want to spend time with her alone.
  
  - Do not be afraid to show your affection in public. That doesn't mean hardcore make-out in public, but hold her hand, put your arm around her, kiss her on the cheek. She'll feel prized and confident.